Jb6767 if you are using Mac, you can set up your phone or iPad as a virtual MIDI device, activate that in your DAW, and send MIDI commands via that output from a MIDI track.
happy to explain more if needed, I use a similar setup from Reaper DAW, so send MIDI over Bluetooth to bring up the correct song up in Stage Traxx 3, works great, but I did have to add a .5 second offset in the song settings to get them to sync perfectly