I hear you!
I'm trying to stay as balanced as possible on this type of Apple vs XXX and iOS vs Android and MacOS vs Windows type conversation as it really doesn't achieve much.. aside from blowing off frustration ;-)
I'm primarily a Windows/Android user, but have always had iPads/iPhones in my household so I do get to use both regularly. Now that I've adopted Stage Traxx, I'm really having to use iOS more.
I'm old enough to remember the original Mac vs PC attack ads. I've never liked Apple's happiness to take a perceived place of snobbery and 'creative elitism'. I also have a thing against Apple as they bought Logic Pro and killed off the Windows version (which I owned and was using) simply because it was not in their interest to support the Windows platform.
While Windows took some horrible missteps, today I think it's a rock solid OS. Android might be younger than iOS, but I think it is a fair way ahead today. Again, just my opinions and I likely still have biases driving that. Even more important these days, we probably all hope the OS is a moot point, because the app itself is what gives us the actual productivity, not the OS. And yet OS elements that the app relies on (e.g. network stack, UI features) can really degrade that experience.